New Sex Advisor #93 ©2001 Arte & www

How To Get Her To “Let Go” and “Let It Flow”

I have a problem with releasing my self...I get right to the point of release and I just don't get off... I'm a 22 year old female and my man is 22 as well..!! We have tried toys with him doing me at the same time. I go from wet to dry even though, I am enjoying what he is doing.... I have never in my life had an orgasm...!!! He has tried to eat me out and then have sex and even that don't help... We have tired anal and a sex to in my couchie, and it didn't work either. I get so frustrated at my self because I can't have an orgasm.. We have tried so many things and he has read so many books about sex and positions and we have even tried watching porno's. Can you help me..??
Sincerely, WhisperOnTheWind

Dear Whisper,

Female orgasm is not just a function of physical stimulation.

There are very primal and important psychological factors involved with a woman’s ability to Let Go enough to really let it flow.

They are: Trust, Relaxation, Desire, The Importance of Being Naked, and Absolute Presence in the Moment.

If the woman doesn’t trust the person she’s with enough to let him do anything he wants to her body, it won’t happen. Likewise, she must trust herself enough to let herself go and experience animal instincts and impulses that lie dormant deep within her.

If a woman is not adequately relaxed, she will not be able to orgasm. This is a factor of both physical relaxation of her muscles, and mental relaxation from everyday stresses and strains.

Desire must also be intense. If the woman doesn’t want to have orgasms, if she doesn’t really enjoy sex, and/or if she doesn’t really desire her lover physically or emotionally, the trip to orgasmville will be fraught with difficulty and frustration.

Nudity is essential. People like to hide behind masks and shields in the form of clothing and/or sexual apparatus which get in the way of true connections. In order to get to animal levels of sex, you must get back to a natural state.

If you are not fully present in the moment – if you are thinking about the stock market or terrorism or Brad Pitt instead of just the person you’re naked in bed with and the hot sex you’re having, you will never get to the big O. You must only be experiencing the physical intensity of the sexual moment. Thinking is bad. Feeling is good – essential.

I know this is a lot to deal with. But there are definite techniques you and your lover can use to accomplish each of these key psychological factors for yourselves. And the amazing thing is that you don’t have to be a rocket scientist or PhD to do them.

The instructional video NEW SEX NOW will teach you and your beau everything you and he need to know to get you to the place where you can finally let go and experience the Big O.

The techniques are GUARANTEED to enable your first time orgasms and ejaculations which accompany the successful stimulation of the G-Spot.

So if you really are determined to get off, I congratulate you because you have finally come to the right place. (BTW, which books has he read that didn’t do it for you?)

If you act right away, you will also have any questions you or he may have about the techniques answered free of charge via email.

Time to step up. Time to claim your God-given birthright as a woman. You can have multiple orgasms and ejaculations. You can share simultaneous ejaculations with your lover any time you want.

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Sincerely,

Arte

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