New Sex Advisor #86 ©2001 Arte & www.NewSex.org
How To Be Here Now – Part 1
Being more present in the moment is one of the most powerful immediate improvements you can make on your lovemaking – and the easiest way to be a better lover.
Over the next several days we’re going to focus on this dynamic shift into hyper-sensual lovemaking.
Step 1 toward instant better sex: Use your eyes.
Look at what’s going on – really look at the other person as if for the first time.
Notice their skin-tone…
Eyelashes…
The color of her eyes…
See the tiny hairs…
Absorb the curves of her torso…
The slope of her breasts…
Rte of breathing…
Look at her vagina. Have you taken a real close gander lately? Seen the lips where they meet the pink…
Appreciated that pink?
And don’t forget the shadows…
The flicker of a candle flame…
Flower petals on the nightstand…
Threads in the sheets…
The way her skin reacts to your fingertips…
Keep going…
Tonight, pay extra attention to all your eyes behold.
Let me know if you notice any difference.
Arte, your New Sex™ Advisor
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