New Sex Advisor #71 ©2001 Arte & www

Master Sex Talk

I go to a lot of adult webmaster conventions in Las Vegas

and around the country to promote www.NewSex.org and to

learn about the latest advances on the internet. At a

shmooze-fest during Adultdex last year I had a very

important conversation with a webmistress who had bought our instructional video NEW SEX NOW.

Her name was Sharon, and she owns a number of very

cool adult sites, among them: www.AgeOldPussy.com

www.sexyoldsluts.com, www.fatfanny.com, and

www.BigAndSexy.com. She’s a very cool ex-hippie swinger

from Michigan, who’s been just about everywhere and

done just about everything with (I presume) just about

everybody ˆ so I really took what she had to say very

seriously as we sipped cocktails at a high-up hospitality

suite in the Tropicana.

“I watched your video, Arte,” she said. “And I gotta tell ya, hon, I really liked it a lot. In fact, I had my husband watch it. Not that he needed to learn anything ˆ because he’s super in bed ˆ but it was a good refresher for him. To remind him about certain things.”

“Thank you,” I said, genuinely honored.

“The only thing is, I think you should have done more about

aural sex.”

“You mean sex talk?”

“Yeah, it’s very important to talk during sex. If my husband doesn’t talk to me during sex I’m liable to start thinking about work and my website statistics ˆ and that’s not good.”

“I know!” On NEW SEX NOW there’s a whole section devoted specifically to the importance of being present in the moment during sex. “So what do you want a man to say during sex?”

“Oh anything!” she said, getting very animated. “Tell me

about what you’re doing to me, or what you’re gonna do to

me, or what you wish you could do to me with the monkey! Anything, just to keep me from getting distracted.”

She had an amazing point. As we all should know, the most powerful erogenous zone in the body is located between our ears.

Talking to your partner during sex not only activates an

important sensory organ (your ears) but also activates the

mind. When done properly, your sex talk can have a tremendous impact on the erotic power of a sexual

encounter.

Tomorrow, a whole list of sex talk dialogue you can use in

your lovemaking.

Until then, I will remain…

Arte

Your New Sex Advisor

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