New Sex Advisor #66 ©2001 Arte & www

Swallowing Is Not About Swallowing

Fri, 15 Jun 2001 14:42:55 EDT

From:

Vgn124@aol.com

Arte,

hi, i'm 41 and my boyfriend is 48....i have done alot of things but swallowing isn't one of them...he wants me too...i have tried a couple of times but can't...i've seen what it looks like and i can't imagine swallowing it....or he'll ejaculate on me and want me to lick the head...i want to get over this problem cause he really wants me to do this...any ideas...i need help...thank you...

Dear Vgn,

Swallowing is not about swallowing a substance, it’s about complete acceptance, wanting and loving everything about that person.

It’s about completely letting a person in.

What a man wants more than anything is complete acceptance from a woman. That is what makes a man feel loved.

There are certain doors that remain closed until you’ve accepted everything about a person – including their sexual organs and ejaculate – inside and into your body. Until you have, there is a limit to your intimacy.

When you taste wine or other alcohols for the first time, most people don’t like the taste. After a while it becomes a sought after experience.

When a person won’t swallow it’s never about the taste.

Swallowing is about accepting that liquid as a part of your sexual interaction.

Swallowing is about accepting everything about your man. About loving everything that is him.

If you won't swallow your man's cum you need to break up with him, because you really don't love him.

I have never been with a woman who loved me who refused to swallow.

Sincerely,

Arte

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