| * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * Conclusion of my conversation with Cheryl, age 39, which occurred in our ejaculation-soaked desert spa California king-size bed, right before this year's Academy Awards. * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * Arte: What was it that enabled you to let go? Cheryl: In my head, I just kinda listened to the music (Van Morrisson) and was more here and now, present ? didn’t think, just did ? let my body feel open and just do it. Arte: Did you have to do anything to your body? Cheryl: No, just relax it. Because the problem is when you start to feel it get tense, then you tense up more, and then you can’t let go of something. So instead, you relax. When I was on the verge of that I was tensing up and it wouldn’t let me go past it. So this time I just sort of laid and listened to the music and relaxed my body, and it did what I guess it’s supposed to do. Wow! Arte: What about when it was going on ? what was it like when it was happening? Cheryl: My entire stomach kind of tensed up. Then I felt my whole vaginal area, uterus, everything just sort of release. And each time I did it, it was easier. Because my body understood it. First I was tense because I didn’t know what was going on, then I relaxed more into it and more into it, and then the last time it just naturally happened. There wasn’t that tension. So it makes me think that when your body doesn’t know what’s going on there is tension, but the last time it happened, when you were inside me, my body was relaxed and I didn’t go through that tense period, it just released. That tension, that uncomfortableness, is only brought on by your own body not relaxing into it. Because once it happened and happened again, my body was like “Whoa!” And just having you inside of me, it just let go of it naturally, and the tension I was feeling initially just wasn’t even there. It was just release, and that tingling feeling. Arte: What about the last one? Cheryl: While you were inside of me? My body had done it a couple of times, so not only could I relax into it, but then I felt you inside of me, and then I felt you starting to come inside of me, and it was really warm, and that just sort of pushed me to the next level and made me release at the same time. I was reacting to your body. Arte: I came so fast with you ? you were like electricity. And usually I have a lot of control and staying power, but it was so exciting and hot ? Mmmmm! You felt so free and natural. Cheryl: It feels like you broke through a wall. Arte: What do you mean? Cheryl: It felt like you were deeper and more intense. It felt like it’s a part of me. The two of us were part of one particular act. It wasn’t separate. It wasn’t action and reaction ? it was all simultaneously happening. Arte: You mean when we were having sex it was more unified than normal? Cheryl: Yeah. Once I stopped fighting it and finally let go. Arte: Why do you think you were fighting it? Cheryl: It wasn’t even a conscious mental effort. My body didn’t know what was going on. It wasn’t deciphering the sensations. You had once said that the G-Spot is so close to your bladder that your body thinks that you have to go to the bathroom. But the funny thing is that the first time we started doing this, I did feel like I had to go to the bathroom. It was because my body was so tense that it was sort of blurring the senses of all those organs together. When I relaxed into it, it was such a separate, different feeling than that feeling of having to go to the bathroom. It was completely different than it was a week ago. Because I was tensing my body, so all those organs were coming together and I couldn’t decipher the different feelings. Relaxing my body allowed me to relax into it, and it didn’t feel like I really had to go to the bathroom. It was that intensity, but in a good way. It’s funny, because I think once it happens, it’s completely different. I completely let go of it, and it’s a completely different feeling. And once it happens for you, you realize what’s happening to your body, and I think it’s easier to let go of it again and again. Because first you’re thinking that your body is doing something unnatural, so you tense it up. But if you just relax into it, and the person you’re with knows what they’re doing, it just happens. Arte: What about your past experiences in this realm of sexuality. Cheryl: About five years ago my boyfriend (at the time) and I took Charles and Carolyn Muir’s seminar, and we learned about the Sacred Spot and Amrita. We tried the techniques and everything that they told us to do, but weren’t able to achieve this. I just figured I wasn’t able to do it. And they never came right out and said “Every woman can ejaculate,” the way you do. So my boyfriend and I tried, and just didn’t get very far. Maybe I got somewhere close to the edge, but I never got to the edge, and certainly never got over the edge. Arte: Why not? Cheryl: I think it’s because he didn’t know what to do exactly, the way you do. And he wasn’t persistent enough. They gave us a genral idea of what kind of stuff would go on, but nobody ever said do this and this and this, and this that and the other thing will happen… Arte: …Like I do on “New Sex Now”… Cheryl: We just tried, and when I couldn’t do it, gave up. A I was left feeling like it was my fault, that I wasn’t able to do it. Arte: That’s too bad, because every woman is physically capable of ejaculating and enjoying Sacred Spot a.k.a. G-Spot orgasms. It’s too bad for you he didn’t have the step-by-step New Sex™ Techniques telling him exactly what to do. But then, his loss is my gain. Have YOU tried New Sex™? www.NewSex.org Have YOU tried New Sex? 
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