New Sex
Advisory #24 ©2001 Arte
Arte,
I'm 26, from England. My fiancée is 20 and lives down the street from
me. We are very much in love with each other.
I am frustrated, however. I have had a few sexual partners in my past,
especially whilst I was at university. My fiancée hasn't. I think
this makes her very nervous about me - she thinks I constantly compare
her to my other lovers. The truth is that I don't. I love her and
I am IN love with her. I find MAKING love to her absolutely exquisite.
I think this insecurity is the root of my problem - but I'm not sure.
You see I don’t believe she has ever had a real, all-body climax.
I think she has had a few twinges, yes! I think she has had an orgasm
with me. But a climax... no! You see after reading your column I am
aware that the female climax happens in stages, like a roller coaster,
with each peak higher than the last, with the final peak being the
absolute climax. However, how do you get your partner to that final
peak when they stop at the first slope? She tenses up, then goes ticklish
and wants me to stop stimulating her.
How can I help her to relax? I want to give her a climax which will
shake her world!
Help me, please!!!
Yours
Richard, UK
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Dear Richard,
Your devotion to your beloved is most inspiring, and I am going to
help you because such intense love deserves to be reflected in intense
lovemaking.
Richard, I hope you can hear this loud and clear: regardless of your
sexual history with your fiancée, you can create maximum sexual satisfaction
with her -- even if she's never had an orgasm in her life.
I promise that what you have found to be so difficult thus far is
one of the easiest things to master if you know the right approach.
This is not rocket science. Ultimate Female Orgasms are brought on
by using subtle techniques, but they are all natural and will come
naturally to you.
First off, you can’t worry about all the chicks that you’ve bedded
in the past getting in the way of your current sex life. There is
a real double standard, and it’s good that you’ve had all the experiences
in your past because they’ve made you the man you are today. Next
time she brings it up, tell her “All those other women were just preparing
me to be able to love and satisfy you fully.” Or words to that effect.
Next, if you don’t think she’s had a full body orgasm, you’re probably
right. It’s very hard to hide a female ejaculation, and it’s impossible
to not know when a woman is having a G-Spot orgasm. The physical reactions
are THAT INTENSE. And the puddle is very obvious. Don’t feel bad,
she’s very young, and this is no reflection on you it’s rather more
of a reflection on the sad state of sexual awareness in our society
at large. Keep in mind, my current girlfriend, Cheryl, was 39 years
old when I gave her those first ejaculations and G-Spot orgasms at
the spa in Palm Springs. Your little girlie is going to be way ahead
of the game.
I suggest that you go back into my column archives and read the ones
about Trust, Relaxation, and Desire. They will provide you with the
basic psychological principles that are the foundation of New
Sex™ and maximizing female pleasure.
I have used the New
Sex™ Techniques to create the extraordinary levels of Trust, Relaxation,
and Desire required to bring numerous women to their highest climaxes.
Women of all ages, from 20 50. I know you will agree that once you
take her over the wall, once you get her to let go and let it flow,
her admiration and desire for you will compound into the most intense
love imaginable.
If those columns are not enough for you, I would encourage you to
begin your investigation of the New Sex™ Revolution in earnest. Click
on the link to www.NewSex.org
and read the testimonials and other background information on the
techniques.
After that you may want to check out the New Sex Institute’s video
“New
Sex Now" which explains and demonstrates exactly how to help any
woman achieve G-Spot orgasms and female ejaculations the Ultimate
Female Orgasms and then how to combine that experience with sexual
intercourse for simultaneous ejaculations.
I want to acknowledge you, Richard, for having the courage to explore
uncharted sexual and emotional territories with your beloved. I know
that this very same exploration has provided me with unexpected and
undreamed of levels of fulfillment and intimacy in my life, as I hope
it will for you too.
Please write back and let us know your progress.
Sincerely,
Arte
Your New Sex™ Advisor
www.NewSex.org