In order to give a woman
her first ejaculations and G-Spot orgasms, you must both be naked!
Trust me on this.
One time I had a call from a man named Andrew, who couldnít get his
girlfriend to ejaculate. He said, "I read your book, Iím following
all the techniques, Iím very frustrated."
Turns out he wasnít following the instructions because he screwed
up right in the beginning: he was very shy, and he wasnít naked. He
stripped all the clothes off the girl, but he kept his boxer shorts
on in bed.
I said, "Andrew, think about the tigers in the jungle. When the
tigers are fucking, are they wearing boxer shorts?"
He laughed.
"Donít you want to fuck like a tiger?"
He said, "Gee, I donít know."
I said, "Trust me, Andrew. You definitely want to fuck like a
tiger."
You see, clothes are one of the basic things that separate human beings
from wild animals. And what New Sexallows you to do is get to
a place in your sexuality where youíre more like a wild animal than
you probably are during regular sex. So you need to take off all your
clothes and be a naked animal with your lover. This way your sex can
be wild, natural, and intense.
Likewise, you shouldnít have on any leather masks or restraining gear,
or even be using cock rings or other jewelry.
Ladies, take those big diamond engagement rings OFF -- you donít want
to slice up your manís flesh when your arms start flailing around
out of control. Itís only funny until somebody loses a testicle!
You want to be completely exposed and bare-assed with your partner,
simply demonstrating by your nudity that you have nothing to hide,
that youíre just a person, naked in the moment, alone on a bed with
another person.
Tomorrow: Our first Reader Question from Jim
Day After Tomorrow: 4th Psychological Element of New Sex