I have this incredibly sexy new pseudo-girlfriend. A genuine Pamela Anderson type. Blonde. Killer body. Huge beautiful breasts. Gorgeous face. Green/grey eyes. Big mouth with inspiring lips. Saw her across a crowded parking lot in The Valley, walking towards a store. Followed her inside.

As I entered I heard the saleswoman say, "I'm sorry, we don't have any of those." So I stepped up to the little vixen, gave her a casual smile, looked right into her eyes and asked, "What did you come here for?"

"Something for my dog," she said. Then she extended her hand to shake and said "I'm Cheryl."

I shook her hand and said, "Arte."

We stood there and talked in soft, intimate tones, right in the entryway, for several mintues. Then we browsed for two or three minutes, looking at handmade soaps. And then, about nine minutes after we met, I was standing deep in her personal space, when I started to lean in for a kiss.

She looked away shyly, subtly thwarting my intentions, and asked -- definitely amused, not at all upset -- "What are you doing?"

I said "I don't know."

Four minutes later, after a bit more browsing and heavy eye-contact, I slowly and unthreateningly moved to within six inches of her, squared my body with hers, took her head in my hands, gently tilted her lips up toward mine, and one more time, leaned in to kiss her.

My sights locked on target until our mouths were just inches apart. Then I looked from her lips into her big green/grey orbs, and saw in those eyes a faint glimmer of panic mixed with excitement and desire.

There was soooooooooooooooooooooo much chemistry.

It was like slow-motion in a movie.

Ever so softly, our lips touched for the first time.

A long, tender kiss.

Just lips on lips.

Hot breaths.

Then I leaned away to take an appraisal of the situation.

She seemed kinda shocked, but very much okay with what was happening.

So I leaned in again, and this time licked her lips with my tongue...

Then I felt her tongue against mine, softly dancing and darting into my mouth...

I think I stopped breathing...

And when we broke the kiss I looked deep into her eyes before I spoke: "Figures I'd meet a gorgeous woman like you on a day like today. I haven't taken a shower, and I literally slept in the clothes I'm wearing."

"I haven't showered either," she said with an amused smile. Then she got a very serious look and asked "Do you do this all the time? Follow women into stores and start kissing them?"

I held my gaze steady, looking into her soul, and answered will all honesty, "No, never."

LESSON #1: Desire

There are five psychological elements of my tecnique that enables a man to help a woman achieve her first female ejaculations and G-Spot orgasms. #1 -- and most importantly -- is Desire. You must have a burning desire for the woman, and she must be burning hot for you too. You cannot fake this. It must be genuine. You cannot simply have a burning curiosity about female ejaculations. That will most certainly not suffice. You must be aching to be sexual with the person. They have to inspire a white-hot passion in your loins. Call it chemistry, call it lust, animal magnetism ... call it anything you want -- but it's imperative that it be a pure, motivating, heart-thumping, blood-boiling desire to be naked, sweating, swapping spit, and copulating with the other person.

Tomorrow - Lesson # 2: Trust

Very Truly Your New Sex Advisor,

Arte
Founder, New Sex Institute