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Dear New Sex Advisor,

I am 32 my wife is 32, she has had clit orgasms but is that all there is for her ?

How do you get her to get shooting ones and were is the g spot?

Is it really there for every woman?

Dying to know.

-Jim

Dear Jim,

Clitoral orgasms are definitely not all there is to sex for women.

Many women experience female ejaculations ("squirting" or as you put it "shooting") and/or G-Spot orgasms. Women describe these other orgasms as being much more intense than "regular" orgasms. More of a "whole body" experience. Definitely different.

Unless she's had it surgically removed, your wife and every other woman on the planet has a G-Spot.

Believe it or not, before the G-Spot was "discovered," women would sometimes go in to their doctor complaining of "incontinence" during lovemaking. They were wetting the bed during sex, and their husbands must've gotten freaked out about them "peeing" during the holiest of holy moments.

Today, of course, it is widely known (at lest in the Tantra community and among others familiar with G-Spot sex and female ejaculation) that female ejaculate is not urine.

Unfortunately, the "cure" for this "problem" was surgical removal of the G-Spot.

Sure enough, no more G-Spot, no more wetting the bed during sex -- hooray! One small step for medical science, one giant leap into the grave for some poor housewife's sex-life.

The G-Spot is located inside the vagina, on the front upper wall, right above the pubic bone.

The term G-Spot is a misnomer, as a "spot" implies a "point," and the area you're looking for is definitely much bigger than any pin-point. G-Spots range in size from about the size of an almond, to as big as a Kenedy half-dollar.

If you want to learn how to make her "shoot" or "squirt"or have female ejaculations, you should read all my columns, because the answer to that question is beyond the scope of any single article I could write.

First time female ejaculation requires the use of very simple yet specific physical and psychological techniques, all of which will be explained in the coming weeks, right here in the New Sex™ Advisor.

Thanks for writing, good luck, and let me know how it all works out.

Sincerely,

Arte
Founder, New Sex Institute