Dear New Sex Advisor,
I'm 18 yrs old, my partner is 19 and has never experienced an orgasm. I can find her gspot and know were it is but can't stimulate it. Have tried rubbing hard and lightly, tried licking, but no luck.
Please help????????
Dear 18,
I feel your pain.
I know it must be very frustrating to have all those hormones raging in your body, and all that love and good intentions flowing through your fingers, tongue, and other body parts, and yet still not be able to bring your dear sexy little hottie to climax.
There is hope.
I want you to know that you are not alone.
Most women in America have not experience G-Spot orgasms.
Most men in America don't even know where the G-Spot it, let alone what to do with it, or what to expect from a climax.
The fact that you care enough to write in indicates that you are probably alot closer than you think to achieving the intimate aspirations you have for your girlfriend and yourself.
To me, the saddest part is that the G-Spot is so "mysterious" and misunderstood that she can't even tell you what to do because she doesn't even understand it herself -- and it's her own body.
I know I was very close to bringing a young woman to her first experience of female ejaculations when I was 26. But because I didn't know what I was doing, what to expect, or what the landmarks were along the road to this climax, I just stopped fingering her the way I had been doing and settled for the anti-climax of plain-old sex with her.
Here's what you have to do.
First, you have to realize that the G-Spot is not a magic button that you can just press in order to make a woman have incredible climaxes. It is definitely part of what it takes, but if you've been reading this column you may be starting to understand that there are very deep psychological elements at play in the process of female orgasm. You need to satisfy those psychological aspects before you even start playing on the physical plain.
It took me six weeks of careful groundwork and preparation before I was able to get the 39 year-old multi-orgasmic sex-kitten I've written about in the past few days to a point where she was both physically and "emotionally" ready to really let go and soak the bed. And I'm an "expert."
Keep reading the columns to learn a wealth of information about how to do it with your little chickie, and I have no doubt that if you follow the advice and continue to develop the physical and emotional bonds you've started on with your girlfriend, one day soon she too will pass "over the wall, to the other side,"and together both of you will be able to enjoy a realm of pleasure beyond what most people ever experience.
If you want to accelerate your learning curve, you may want to get my video NEW SEX NOW, which explains and demonstrates everything you need to know in order to help any woman enjoy female ejaculations and G-Spot orgasms, and then how to combine them with sexual intercourse for simultaneous ejaculations every time you try.
Good luck, and let me know how it all turns out!
Sincerely,
Arte
Founder, New Sex Institute
Have YOU tried New Sex™?
PS, You should carefully review all the articles in the Archives of my column, as they will give you a real edge when it comes to satisfying the psychological needs of a woman prior to being able to let go. That's more than half the battle.